I have had a 20 year lingerie-gap in my life. As a young woman I was crazy about stilettos and corsettos… but during my marriage I forgot about all that. In hindsight that was stupid of course – it would probably not have effected the relationship negatively. But you know what it is like…family and everyday life takes the best out of many of us.
But now, as a free woman again – I love to dress up in sexy underwear. And many men are secretly wearing women’s underwear – to feel sexy and kinky. It is totally understandable!
The texture does something to the skin and thus the mind…the lust.